First of all, I want to say that being a fangirl is NOT a bad thing!! You don't have to stop being a fangirl unless you're in a dark hole like me and have no choice but to abandon the fangirl world. But before I start, I must say that ONE DOES NOT SIMPLY STOP FANGIRLING. However, you can restrict your fangirl craze by following these steps-
P.S. this is more of a reminder for myself than anything else pls don't take offense in it.
#1 if you have any fanpage, DELETE IT NOW!!! i know how difficult it is as i myself had over 5 fanpages but trust me this is the major step and life without your fanpage isn't as painful as you think.
*make an aesthetic blog/ quotes/ memes/social justice blog if you want to keep yourself occupied*
#2 if you write fanfics, STOP!! try to delete the fanfics that you have posted because you will continue to get notifications from those and will stay attached to it. If deleting is too hard for you, you can keep them and disable your notification, this way people can still read it but it won't disrupt your personal life.
#3 if you draw fanart, STOP!! try to draw about something else. Draw Barack Obama. Draw Bill Nye the sciene guy. Draw about WWII. Draw about 3017 when robot marriage is legal and mars is overpopulated. Draw a banana.
*hide the fanarts you've already drawn*
Stop posting about BL or your OTP.
Do NOT look onto the tags when you're on tumblr or instagram.
Avoid watching fanedits.
If you're following someone who posts about those, unfollow them.
Try something new. Watch different types of anime/ show.
Find something new. Play video games (not mystic messenger) or
read books (not the ones that makes you fangirl), play sport, master drawing
finally, take it slow. take it day by day, minute by minute. SKAM fans see what i did there (☞ﾟ∀ﾟ)☞
#5 Even if you're not a fujoshi but just a regular fangirl/fanboy who wants to lessen their obsession, you can take the steps mentioned above^^ and i promise it will work. Good luck to anybody trying to change themselves and hopefully you will be able to live a healthy life. (◕‿◕✿)
P.S. this is more of a reminder for myself than anything else pls don't take offense in it.
#1 if you have any fanpage, DELETE IT NOW!!! i know how difficult it is as i myself had over 5 fanpages but trust me this is the major step and life without your fanpage isn't as painful as you think.
*make an aesthetic blog/ quotes/ memes/social justice blog if you want to keep yourself occupied*
#2 if you write fanfics, STOP!! try to delete the fanfics that you have posted because you will continue to get notifications from those and will stay attached to it. If deleting is too hard for you, you can keep them and disable your notification, this way people can still read it but it won't disrupt your personal life.
#3 if you draw fanart, STOP!! try to draw about something else. Draw Barack Obama. Draw Bill Nye the sciene guy. Draw about WWII. Draw about 3017 when robot marriage is legal and mars is overpopulated. Draw a banana.
*hide the fanarts you've already drawn*
#4 If you're a fujoshi/fundanshi first stop watching yaoi or anything that relates to it. It's hard but the first step is to stop watching.
Then stop reading BL fanfics.Stop posting about BL or your OTP.
Do NOT look onto the tags when you're on tumblr or instagram.
Avoid watching fanedits.
If you're following someone who posts about those, unfollow them.
Try something new. Watch different types of anime/ show.
Find something new. Play video games (not mystic messenger) or
read books (not the ones that makes you fangirl), play sport, master drawing
finally, take it slow. take it day by day, minute by minute. SKAM fans see what i did there (☞ﾟ∀ﾟ)☞
#5 Even if you're not a fujoshi but just a regular fangirl/fanboy who wants to lessen their obsession, you can take the steps mentioned above^^ and i promise it will work. Good luck to anybody trying to change themselves and hopefully you will be able to live a healthy life. (◕‿◕✿)
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